Adolescent girls' affiliation with boys has been the focus ofadolescent education for a long time. As an experienced teacher in thefield of education and management of female students in a sanitaryschool, the author has always paid attention to the development andchange in the female students' affiliation with boys. In recent years, thedeviation in such affiliation becomes more and more serious.For a longtime we ascribe the deviation to the worsening of the social environmentand the premature of girls. Therefore, we devoted to reform the rules ofour school, with the hope to rectify the deviation in the heterosexualaffiliation. However, the result is not satisfactory. Based on the reflectionon the phenomenon, feature, cause, and the current management situationin the school, the author put forward the viewpoint: The deviation inaffiliation consists of action deviation and cognitive deviation. The moraleducation of the school can be effective only by focusing on both guideof value intention and self-construction. The nucleus of education is tomeet the requirements on all-around development of human beings. Toimprove the affiliation action of adolescent girls, we must pay attention totheir spirits. Only through pertinent education, promoting their spiritualstandard, helping them to establish an open and responsible correctattitude towards the affiliation, and cultivating the girls capability to set up a kind of noble relationship.can we lead the girls to a world with truth,goodness, and beauty, and accomplish the function of guide in education. |