Research On The College Students' Attitude To The Conflict Between Lovers Caused By Lie

In intimate relationship, the conflicts frequently happen between the lovers, one of the reasons of conflicts triggered by the lies. University students are large group in love and marriage stage, this study explored when the conflict caused by the lies, the college students′attitude to the incident between the pairs of lovers, and further analysis of the college students are tested the existence of gender differences in attitudes.Overall study is divided into three parts:The first part is open-ended interviews. Collecting information through interviews, to determine when the lovers conflict caused by lie, in what would love relationship between the two has important implications. Interview results showed that: students mainly from the perspective of two kinds of evaluation of the relationship between pairs of lovers, one is students stand in the perspective of evaluation of lovers, a significant impact on relations, include the confidence of lovers, the students to one of the lovers of guilt on the extent of their own actions and the extent of both the suffering of love. The other is students stand in the perspective of evaluation of theirselves, a significant impact on relations, include the students to one of the lovers of acceptance of the behavior and one of the lovers love degree.The second part is a survey. The two angles are summarized in the first part of the interview in five main areas to be inspected as a self-compiled questionnaire aspects, carrying out a questionnaire testing, further studies are tested in various dimensions of the attitude, and are tested on a specific dimension in which there are gender differences. This section uses a questionnaire to be self-compiled questionnaire 1 and the self-compiled questionnaire 2, each questionnaire is used 2(lie: well-intentioned lie vs. malicious lies)×2(active and passive: active vs. passive) 4 context, the theme of the questionnaire 1 is the boy of the lovers lie, the theme of the questionnaire 2 is the girl of the lovers lie, two kinds of the questionnaires are invited different college students to do. Questionnaire results shows that: the college students on the acceptance of well-intentioned lies higher than that of the acceptance of malicious lies, and does not exist significant differences in gender; the college students acceptance of pairs of lovers scolded one of passive acceptance is higher than curse on the active side of acceptance, and does not exist significant differences in gender; college students in pairs of lovers′love and behaviors side of the degree of acceptance that there are significant gender differences, and male students in the boy's favorite pairs of lovers, the extent and behavior of acceptance of the above pairs of lovers in the extent and behavior of girls love acceptance, female college students in the girls love lover level and behavior of acceptance of the above pairs of lovers in the boy's love and behaviors acceptance.The third part is experimental study. There are a total of eight kinds of situations experimental content, situational settings using the form of 2(lovers sex: boy vs.girl)×2(lie: well-intentioned lie vs. malicious lies)×2(active and passive: active vs. passive),all the situations of the second part of the paper's two self-compiled questionnaire. Every student independently for each experiment, by recording the size of reaction time to examine the student's differences. Because in the second part of the survey get the results: men and women student in the lover side"acceptance of behavior"and"love degree"two dimensions exist gender differences, therefore, in the third part of the experimental study for further validation of this difference. Experimental results shows: in the four kinds of situations are boy lying, both boys said well-intentioned lies or malicious lies, and whether the boy is active or passive scolded curse, the existence of male college students are boy's love and behaviors acceptance of female students is higher than the extent of the boy's love and acceptance of the behavior(P<0.05);but in the four kinds of situations are girl lying, in the girl said well-intentioned lies under the two scenarios, female students on the degree of lovers in love girls and conduct acceptance is higher than male students on the degree of lovers in love girls and conduct acceptance(P<0.05), in the girl said malicious lies under the two scenarios, male students on the degree of lovers in love girls and conduct acceptance is higher than female students on the degree of lovers in love girls and conduct acceptance(P<0.05).Through the above study, the paper reaches the following main conclusions: (1) The college students on the evaluation of well-intentioned lies higher than that of the acceptance of malicious lies.(2) The college students on the evaluation of pairs of lovers scolded one of passive acceptance is higher than curse on the active side of acceptance.(3) In the questionnaire survey, the college students with their same-sex pairs of lovers in the evaluation of a party higher than a party with their own evaluation of the opposite sex.(4) In the experimental situations, there are only the female students have high evaluation of the existence of same-sex.