Research On The Dormitory Interpersonal Relationship Of The Undergraduate

The dormitory interpersonal relationship of undergraduate students is a kind of relationship that it is happened between roommates of undergraduates in the dormitory by interacting and communicating. It is not only one of interpersonal relationships of undergraduates but also a quite important and complicated relationships of undergraduates. Whether the dormitory relationship is harmonious or not affects their psychology, study, growth and daily life directly, especially the casualties occurred frequently in recent years in colleges or universities caused heavy losses to families,universities and individuals which make this study more valuable and more significant. This study combine the methods of questionnaire investigation and structural interview to obtain the real fact of dormitory interpersonal relationship of undergraduates who officially registered and got corresponding study qualification, study in the campus and live in the dormitory at present.These undergraduates come from universities or colleges of first level, second level and third level. The conclusions are the followings.Fistly, the mainstream of current college students’ dormitory interpersonal relationship is harmonious, but there are also some problems that need to be paid attention to and take measures to solve. They are conflicts of living trifles, malignant competition, differences of outlook on life and values, “clique” phenomenon and the attitude of solving problems or conflicts is passive.Secondly, the causes of current exsisting problems happened in the dormitory interpersonal relationship mainly include four aspects: the living environment is not comfortable enough, related education and management are inadequate and mechanism of rewards and punishment is not reasonable; The bad influence of family economic condition and parenting styles; The bad effects of social culture, social psychology, eduaction system of university and current employment situation,as well as internet and regional culture. Besides, personal interests and hobbies, customs and habits, outlooks on life and values, love,unhealthy psychology and congitive biases are also the the main reasons.Thirdly, this paper put forward some coutermeasures. Parents must change the pattern of education and give children more care and guidance on interpersonal relationship; Universities or colleges should improve students’ housing level and management system, strengthen the related guidance and construction of dormitory culture, change the rewards incentive mechanism and transform the education pattern, establish the warning and intervention mechanism and “safety valve” system, and make full use of the major of social work; Society must advance the mainstream of social values to help undergraduates to form correct outlook on life and vlaues, increase employment opportunities, change criterion of employment and make a comprehensive evaluation of talent, and purify the internet to create a healthy and secure network space; As an individual, ourselvies must consciously improve our character and quality to shape a healthy personality and psychology. More importantly, not only learn the knowlege and communication skills, but also apply them to the daily life consciously and initiatively.