Exploration On The Concept Of Spouse Choosing And Influencing Factors Of Unmarried Female In Rural Areas

Mating preference is an important prerequisite for love and marriage,which affects the stability and happiness of family life in the future.Family is the cell of society and the operation problem of the family system will inevitably lead to some social problems.In fact many social problems can be traced back to the behavior of mating preference.Especially the second child policy fully is liberated.Many married women choose to give up their jobs to return the family.The role of the family economic pillar of the male is more prominent.Based on the questionnaire survey and case interview,this study focuses on the spouse choosing of unmarried young women in Licun City,Hebei Province.In the perspectives of feminist,based on Maslow's need hierarchy theory and the social gender theory as the theoretical support,show how self role orientation of local women affect mating preference.Summarizes the influence factors of local rural unmarried female spouse concept on individual,family and social.The result shows: the local female prefer marrying in the near distance,respect parents opinion on spouse selection and accept blind date.The place is mainly characterized by equal mating form.Marriage custom weakens the local women regarding marriage as social class mobility manners.The stable and comfortable life view make the local women pay attention to the existing social and economic conditions of the male.Complex and overlapping relationship make local women think highly of male family personality,social and economic conditions.Mature,responsible,honest and reliable personality is particularly mentioned because of stable marriage pattern.The marriage room is a necessary element in local before marriage,but the type of house is multiple.Commercial housing is not the only form.On the circumstances in which local mate selection is traditional,different levels of education,economic income,love experience;family social economic status,the degree of parental democratization;leisurely and comfortable cultural atmosphere,free flow of market economy,the influence of the Internet popularity affect females individual mate choice.Female gender roles,especially the role of family decide mating choice.Although local women realize economic independence by work,they still think men bear the responsibility to support a family.In order to make concept of mating choice more maturity,modernization,the author finally come up with suggestions from three aspects :the system,the enterprise,the concept combined with the survey.